Stumbled on this on social media, and decided to share. What are your thoughts?
I’m a 27-year-old lady and my husband is 31 years. We got
married four months ago, we attend the same church, we even met in the
church and we are both active. He is in the ushering department while am
in the choir and we are both born again. Am telling you all this for
you to know we are not babies in the spirit. Our courtship was sex free,
as you know now, no touching, kissing nor romancing. We seldom visit
each other at home due to our church strict restriction on that. And
when I do I never went beyond his sitting room maybe if I had done
otherwise, I would have known about this before now. Our wedding
ceremony was great and we settled down to marital life.
Two
months after, my husband has a cause to travel out of town, it was on a
Saturday and I decided to clean the room as I was re-arranging the
clothes in the wardrobe, a parcel fell on my leg, at first I ignored it
but on a second thought I picked it up to check what was inside, I
received the greatest shock of my life, my husband has been watching
pornography! The parcel actually contained different porn movies. I felt
sad and dejected. I tried to check his laptop if he has such things
there but it has been pass-worded.
I didn’t confront when he
returned and I pretended as if nothing happened. That night I took his
phone when he was fast asleep and searched through it, behold he has
porn movies on his phone too! But I still kept my cool. I had to let the
cat out of the bag when one month later he asked if I like MouthAction
and he want us to it give a trial. He said watched porn movies so that
he will be able to satisfy me in bed. To say that I was shocked is an
understatement. I told him I can’t indulge in MouthAction.
He has
been pestering me for this. How can I engage the same mouth I use to
pray, to speak in tongues in MouthAction? Since then he has been
behaving funny. He keeps to himself; he is not even interested in making
love with me and I’m yet to get pregnant.
Is this right? Doesn't feel right to me.
They missed something.. They forgot to talk about their sexual compatibilities before tying the knot. Something every intending couple must discuss before getting married.
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