Is this right?

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Stumbled on this on social media, and decided to share. What are your thoughts?
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I’m a 27-year-old lady and my husband is 31 years. We got married four months ago, we attend the same church, we even met in the church and we are both active. He is in the ushering department while am in the choir and we are both born again. Am telling you all this for you to know we are not babies in the spirit. Our courtship was sex free, as you know now, no touching, kissing nor romancing. We seldom visit each other at home due to our church strict restriction on that. And when I do I never went beyond his sitting room maybe if I had done otherwise, I would have known about this before now. Our wedding ceremony was great and we settled down to marital life.

Two months after, my husband has a cause to travel out of town, it was on a Saturday and I decided to clean the room as I was re-arranging the clothes in the wardrobe, a parcel fell on my leg, at first I ignored it but on a second thought I picked it up to check what was inside, I received the greatest shock of my life, my husband has been watching pornography! The parcel actually contained different porn movies. I felt sad and dejected. I tried to check his laptop if he has such things there but it has been pass-worded.

I didn’t confront when he returned and I pretended as if nothing happened. That night I took his phone when he was fast asleep and searched through it, behold he has porn movies on his phone too! But I still kept my cool. I had to let the cat out of the bag when one month later he asked if I like MouthAction and he want us to it give a trial. He said watched porn movies so that he will be able to satisfy me in bed. To say that I was shocked is an understatement. I told him I can’t indulge in MouthAction.

He has been pestering me for this. How can I engage the same mouth I use to pray, to speak in tongues in MouthAction? Since then he has been behaving funny. He keeps to himself; he is not even interested in making love with me and I’m yet to get pregnant.

Is this right? Doesn't feel right to me.

Comments

  1. Unknown9 July 2017 at 13:58

    They missed something.. They forgot to talk about their sexual compatibilities before tying the knot. Something every intending couple must discuss before getting married.

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